You’re going to have to get out of the house and interact with people, whether that is at work or some other group function. Some people use bars/clubs for that, others use church. Some engage in sports or gym, some join a book club. Seek out situations that force interaction with others and be open to it without making it weird by seeming needy.
I have 6 cameras running on a rpi5 and it doesn’t seem challenged. I wouldn’t try Frigate here but this does what I want archiving security cams to cloud.